When it comes
to dating and relationships, I often wonder how certain people end up with
others, why they don't walk away if they don't get what they deserve. I think
many people aren't even quite sure what a healthy relationship looks like these
days or how a 'good man' (or woman) should act towards their partner. I have
put together a list of how a good man should act while in a relationship.
1. He never lets you forget how much he loves you
I have had people telling me that the man in their life does not make them feel loved, wanted or appreciated. This is a profoundly important piece of the puzzle — a good man will always remind you how much you mean to him. If someone truly loves you, you will know it and feel it.
2. He always supports you
Regardless of whether you want to go back to school after 20 years, start a singing career or stay at home to raise a family, a good man will always support you and what you want out of your life. He will be beside you every step of the way, cheering on your victories and comforting you during your defeats.
3. He will inspire you
To inspire someone takes effort, both in how one lives their own life and how they encourage others to live theirs. A good man's drive and ambition will rub off on you as he pursues his own passions.
4. He will work to gain your trust.
A good man will want you to be comfortable and confident in your relationship. Without trust, there is no foundation for love or respect. He will understand that trust is not just handed over to someone — it has to be earned, and then it has to be kept.
5. He will always make you feel beautiful
He will understand that making you feel beautiful does not just mean saying the words to you. He will notice details when you put effort into your appearance and remind you how attractive he finds you. He will make you realise that when you love someone for who they truly are, everything about them becomes beautiful.
6. He will make you feel safe
One of the best compliments a woman can give her partner is telling him that she feels safe around him. Regardless of how attracted she is to you or how funny she thinks you are or how rich you are, if a woman cannot sleep soundly by your side at night, none of it matters.
7. He does the little things
Do you need a prescription filled, but have to stay late at work? Did you mention an art exhibit coming to town and he made plans to take you to see it? Regardless of how small certain things seem, he will understand they are really the big things that matter most.
8. He never crosses the line
It is natural to have disagreements and even arguments in a relationship, but there is no reason to make things personal, insulting and abusive. A good man will remain calm and focus on the topic at hand.
9. He is always trying to improve himself
A good man who prides himself on continuous self improvement will always be intellectually challenging you. He will be doing these things for himself, but it will have a positive impact on your relationship.
10. He understands actions speak louder than words
Having the right man in your life will make you realise people who make empty promises don't deserve your respect.
11. He will open up to you
It can be difficult for some people to express their emotions, fears and even inner-most desires, but having the right person in our lives often helps to open those doors. A good man, while understanding that some things are to be kept private, will not hide things from you or bottle up his feelings, knowing that doing so will cause tension and frustration.
12. He will always be honest with you
When building a foundation for a happy, healthy relationship, a good man will understand that honesty is always the best policy.
13. He will make you feel comfortable being honest
Comfort in a relationship comes from the ability to be open and be honest with your partner. And the ability to do this comes from knowing you will never be judged. With a good man, there should never be any fear of him overreacting if you share something with him.
14. He will never be abusive
Whether it be mentally, emotionally or physically, a good man will never think about being abusive towards you.
15. He will stand by you
When a man commits his love and his time to someone, there are no stipulations or circumstances required. There will be good times and there will be not-so-good times. But he will stay by your side and be your teammate through it all.
James Michael Sama
1. He never lets you forget how much he loves you
I have had people telling me that the man in their life does not make them feel loved, wanted or appreciated. This is a profoundly important piece of the puzzle — a good man will always remind you how much you mean to him. If someone truly loves you, you will know it and feel it.
2. He always supports you
Regardless of whether you want to go back to school after 20 years, start a singing career or stay at home to raise a family, a good man will always support you and what you want out of your life. He will be beside you every step of the way, cheering on your victories and comforting you during your defeats.
3. He will inspire you
To inspire someone takes effort, both in how one lives their own life and how they encourage others to live theirs. A good man's drive and ambition will rub off on you as he pursues his own passions.
4. He will work to gain your trust.
A good man will want you to be comfortable and confident in your relationship. Without trust, there is no foundation for love or respect. He will understand that trust is not just handed over to someone — it has to be earned, and then it has to be kept.
5. He will always make you feel beautiful
He will understand that making you feel beautiful does not just mean saying the words to you. He will notice details when you put effort into your appearance and remind you how attractive he finds you. He will make you realise that when you love someone for who they truly are, everything about them becomes beautiful.
6. He will make you feel safe
One of the best compliments a woman can give her partner is telling him that she feels safe around him. Regardless of how attracted she is to you or how funny she thinks you are or how rich you are, if a woman cannot sleep soundly by your side at night, none of it matters.
7. He does the little things
Do you need a prescription filled, but have to stay late at work? Did you mention an art exhibit coming to town and he made plans to take you to see it? Regardless of how small certain things seem, he will understand they are really the big things that matter most.
8. He never crosses the line
It is natural to have disagreements and even arguments in a relationship, but there is no reason to make things personal, insulting and abusive. A good man will remain calm and focus on the topic at hand.
9. He is always trying to improve himself
A good man who prides himself on continuous self improvement will always be intellectually challenging you. He will be doing these things for himself, but it will have a positive impact on your relationship.
10. He understands actions speak louder than words
Having the right man in your life will make you realise people who make empty promises don't deserve your respect.
11. He will open up to you
It can be difficult for some people to express their emotions, fears and even inner-most desires, but having the right person in our lives often helps to open those doors. A good man, while understanding that some things are to be kept private, will not hide things from you or bottle up his feelings, knowing that doing so will cause tension and frustration.
12. He will always be honest with you
When building a foundation for a happy, healthy relationship, a good man will understand that honesty is always the best policy.
13. He will make you feel comfortable being honest
Comfort in a relationship comes from the ability to be open and be honest with your partner. And the ability to do this comes from knowing you will never be judged. With a good man, there should never be any fear of him overreacting if you share something with him.
14. He will never be abusive
Whether it be mentally, emotionally or physically, a good man will never think about being abusive towards you.
15. He will stand by you
When a man commits his love and his time to someone, there are no stipulations or circumstances required. There will be good times and there will be not-so-good times. But he will stay by your side and be your teammate through it all.
James Michael Sama
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